I can only teach the life experiences of things I have done and learned. Likewise, my parents could only teach me what they knew. Reading through this book called
Living, Loving, & Learning has pointed out this important idea to me.
Think about it.. many kids complain about how they had it bad with their parents. And maybe rightfully so. Maybe their parents were verbally (or physically) abusive, or quick tempered, didn't provide as much as other kids parents. Well, this is unfortunate indeed, but if you stand back and look at it, their parents could only teach what they themselves knew. In almost all the cases, your parents act the way the do because of their parents or peers who influenced them. Sure there is extenuating circumstances. I think anyone can raise their hands and say, "Wait a sec, I know kids who were raised with great parents, who ended up going totally haywire" or the opposite, bad parents but the kids ended up persevering through. There are going to be many examples of this.
But the point is, I can only teach others what I know. YOU can only teach others what YOU know. Example is the only true teacher. You can teach from a worksheet or book about morals, but if your life doesn't back up what you say, then no one will really listen.
You can't teach what you do not know. Therefor, I can not teach about God, if I do not know Him and about him. I can not teach you about love, if I don't love myself. Now I could know about the IDEAS of love and God, and they might sound great on paper. I could give you the definition of love, but if that is all I know, I can never teach you about love.
I central theme to this book, is the idea of BECOMING. He says, the best things we can do is to BECOME the most wonderful, understanding, compassionate, caring, discipled person we can be, SO THAT we can share it with others. Because we can only teach what we know, words are never enough. I can not give what I do not have. I can not give you love if I do not have love myself. So we have to focus on getting (becoming) as selfish as that might sound, but think about it. See if it makes sense.
If you disagree then say why you disagree!@